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I've just set up the second "date" with Torrid. Now again, Torrid has a girlfriend and I'm really really really going to try to not confuse myself into thinking that there is something when there is nothing. I need some friends/hang out buddies/etc. that are fun to talk to, supportive and GAY. Most of my friends are straight. Well it so happened that I had an extra ticket to a big event and all of my friends were either busy or didn't want to go so I took a chance and invited Torrid. Her response was an overwhelming yes because the event sounded great to her.

Had I been Torrid's girlfriend - going to a gala event with a new single lesbian friend would NOT be okay. Not at all! But Torrid's woman seems to be fine with it. Or at least Torrid wants to go enough that even if her g/f didn't want her to ... it doesn't matter.

So we shall see! Hopefully our clicking friendship will continue during the awkwardness of having to dress up, meet up, mingle, go to the event and have dinner (??). Otherwise it will just be... well awkward.

I'm kinda giddy that she said yes... that's probably a bad sign.